Happy Birthday to me!!!
On facebook, there is a thing going around called "25 Random Things About Me," once you are "tagged" by someone, you are to write 25 things about yourself and tag 25 people including the person who tagged you. At first, I had a hard time, but once I got started, I could have written more. It isn't meant to be a "bucket list" just a list of random things. It did get me thinking about a bucket list, a list of things to do before I die.
Where do you start? Of course I would love to see The Great Wall of China, scuba dive The Great Barrier Reef, and I would love to visit each state in the United States. But those seem self-indulgent and superficial. What I want to do before I die is watch my girls grow-up. Help them get ready for their first date, shop for prom dresses, help them learn to drive. I want to be there when they get their hearts broken. I want to take the college "road trip" to help them find the college for them. I want to throw big parties for their graduations. I want to share funny stories about me when I was their age.
I want to shop for their wedding dresses, cry at their weddings, dance with their dad and toast them at their receptions. I want to help them move into their first house, share my favorite recipes and deliver all their Christmas ornaments to them for their first Christmas in their own home. I want to hold my grandchildren, spoil them and send them home to their moms.
I want to watch them grow and blossom, become who they are meant to be. Watch them navigate the world and discover what gives them joy and passion. I want to watch them fall in love and meet their soul mates.
I want to continue loving my soul mate and rediscover and redefine our relationship as we grow older and our roles change. I want to continue having adventures, exploring new places together and taking on new projects.
I want to make sure that all my family and friends know how much they mean to me. How their support gets me through the days when the pain is more than I can bear.
That is my bucket list. If along the way, I walk on "The Wall," snorkel "The Reef," and visit the rest of the 50 states I have yet to see then so be it, it will be an adventure, no a to do list.
Happy Birthday. Thanks mom and dad for me.
Kathryn Sue Jaques Barton